> No one has a thinking style compatible with mine. Communication is difficult, but the whole point is to share adopt novel ways of thinking. By the end of the conversation, both participants' "thinking styles" have changed.

I can either focus on difficult conversation parts or at topic at hand. Cant really do both.

So, this means I will do only the social thing and wont get to be able to focus on what I was supposed to learn in the first place.